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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Ex asked for evaluation and it was free through the court. Just got the recommendations. Not in my favor in spite of the fact that evaluator could not observe the kids with ex as kids refused to leave car when I brought him to his house. So now I have to tear apart the report poke holes and show the bias which is doable but will take time and energy. Evaluator also did not put in kids preferences in report. And did not check many things that were verifiable. He just took ex words as truth. Ex said he was a coach for sports and that was a total lie. [/quote] You should have done more to work with the kids vs just say it’s not fine to go to dads including giving consequences for not cooperating. The evaluations are a joke as they don’t fact check on either side and it’s basically a few hours of he said, she said with a lot of bias thrown in. Kids need both parents even if one parent isn’t great. [/quote] All of this. I’m the $30k PP and currently picking apart a joke report full of factual errors, multiple iterations of misspellings of my own very basic name, amplifications of DH’s stories and his mom’s stories (in spite of the evaluator saying she would accept family as collaterals), and then a lot of vague billing hours for “draft”, “draft”, “draft”, “draft.” It’s a sick business. Avoid at all costs. [/quote] Did you offer him 50-50 at the beginning? [/quote]
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