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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]it's important to note that the owners of Paramount - specifically Nick- has three active investigations against him with CHRVA, Paramount has been uninvited to atleast one tournament due to multiple complaints about Nick's behavior where officials sat courtside to make sure he kept himself in check and then paramount wasn't invited back. It's impacting Paramounts recruiting. It's a horrible environment for the girls and some parents are willing to put up with it b/c they want to "win" and/or they drink the "living up to potential" kool-aid. The mental strain on girls has last impacts. Talk to a parent that has LEFT and understand why as well as a family that has stayed and understand their reasoning. AND then make a decison based on what is best for your DD.[/quote] What's your source for any of this? I do not have a horse in this race at all, but your post reads like someone with an ax to grind. How could you possibly know about CHRVA investigations? An investigation does not mean something improper happened, only that someone, probably you, has complained! What tournament do you think they have been uninvited from? How would you know? What is your source for recruiting? From what I can see of the recruitable age range, the girls are landing at excellent schools. I spent 30 seconds flipping through commitments on their Instagram and saw Penn State, Vanderbilt, UCONN, Central Michigan, Amherst, Hampton, Notre Dame, and maybe others, too. You might have legitimate gripes, but mixing things that are easily fact-checked with real ones makes everything you say questionable.[/quote] My dd played for Paramount and decided to leave the club after the incidents above. We are with another club that has ex-paramount families as well and stories are all similar. If stating fact reads like "an ax to grind" then that's on you. I'm shaing our experience- believe me or not- that's up to you.[/quote] You are declaring facts without any backup information, though. As someone with no information in any which direction, you do come across as bitter if you refuse to answer questions and provide backup for your claims. [list]How could you possibly know about CHRVA investigations? An investigation does not mean something improper happened, only that someone, probably you, has complained! [EDITED WITH AN UPDATE: I checked the Safe Sport database and while there are many things in there for many coaches, though fortunately only a few in our region, I do not see the coach you mentioned listed at all] What tournament do you think they have been uninvited from? How would you know? What is your source for recruiting? From what I can see of the recruitable age range, the girls are landing at excellent schools. I spent 30 seconds flipping through commitments on their Instagram and saw Penn State, Vanderbilt, UCONN, Central [/list]Michigan, Amherst, Hampton, Notre Dame, and maybe others, too.[/quote]
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