Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "A travel question that is much more a family relations question"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am originally from a very controversial country but I have family that do not support it's government but for various reasons cannot emigrate. I still love and support my family. You can distinguish between family and the government. How far you take it is up to you, of course. [/quote] This is fine as long as it works for everybody expected to travel. If anyone in the travel party would be treated poorly upon arrival, or during their time there, it’s not reasonable to expect them to visit.[/quote] That's fair enough. I wouldn't expect anyone to put themselves in danger or to subject themselves to bad treatment. But for what it's worth, if you read the State Department warnings for that country, it looks quite unsafe. It really isn't. [/quote] Yeah, in our family right now the travel controversy is my BIL’s partner (Peruvian) doesn’t feel comfortable traveling to the U.S right now. My SIL is acting like it’s a grand insult that they won’t see her kids schools and the family should condemn them both forever rather than…we take a 1:45 minute flight and vacation with them somewhere else (our plan, without enraged SIL). Demanding family members go where you say despite their misgivings and making them experience — at best— anxiety for their well being as the price of a relationship is controlling and unhealthy.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics