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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Once the pain starts, you don't give a f#*$[/quote]

This but also you really feel nothing with the epidural. I had massive tearing and my vag swelled up as big as a football from the trauma so that made me not care as much about the pile of crap that was on the bed when I got up to pee and lost of tons of blood and fainted. I was begging them just to let me wipe my a$$ but they were like no you fainted so they had to hold on to me. Yes it was humiliating but this is literally what they do every single day. They do not care. I pushed for 3 hours and even DH was tired from holding my leg. Yeah no kidding try doing the work. You just get over it. I’m very modest, don’t even pee with friends in the room and it just is what it is. You have to get the baby out and you will care much more that the baby is healthy than that people are staring at your vag. When pushing it was mostly just DH and one nurse. My mom wanted to be in there, but I refused beforehand. After 2 hours of pushing I was begging for her to come in. I also felt zero pain. I got the epidural when I was maybe 4cm because they were going to be busy in surgery and I didn’t want to miss my chance. No pain. Zero and it was a sunny side up baby with back labor. Don’t worry I promise you won’t care. It’s a means to an end. [/quote]

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