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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Why don't we hear a lot from the men who are having affairs with married women?[/quote]

I can give you my story. I was freshly divorced and met a woman ("Betty") via OLD. She stayed over on our first date, and I thought this was going to be great. However, I started noticing things were off. For example, we never went to her place. She said it was because her soon-to-be ex-husband still had to live with her so he could stay on her health insurance. Additionally, she would only call at specific times of the day (I believe she could only call during her commute home). I figured out that she might get a divorce "someday", but that day was not anytime soon, and for right now, she was married.

However, she was very submissive and did not care if our "dates" were limited to dropping by my apartment when we were free. She had no boundaries that I ever found, and it was a perfect form of NSA fun. It got old quickly when I started seeing other women, and I found I could get everything I got from her from them without any creepy "I'll call today at 5:10 to plan a 6:15 hookup" vibe.

I ended it by stopping picking up when she called at 5:10. 
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Similar situation here. Currently seeing a married OW who is very submissive, wants kinky exploration, and her husband is as vanilla as apple pie & ice cream. She has kids, can only meet up during the day time, only plays at a hotel, and communicates only using Snap set to 24 hour expiration. She’s very discreet. Loves to send dirty texts, but will not send anything with her face. I found her on the apps. Her DH has zero clue.

I actually think most of the OW for married men are married women. Both have something to lose, need to be discreet, and can understand pains of scheduling around family life. There’s no hurt feelings about canceling at the last minute or sending/receiving a last minute “Are you free today?” message. Married men are nuts to take on a OW (1) who is younger and wants kids and (2) without getting a vasectomy.

In short, I think it’s more common for the OW to be a married woman these days. 
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