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[quote=Anonymous]I am new to this thread but because I have teens, one of whom is only a freshman but has had multiple SOs, I landed here. I am also a dude. I lost my virginity really early- 13- to a very, very aggressive girl. To be honest, I thought she was super hot, but I wasn't aware that a girl could be as (or more) into sex than a boy. She kinda scared the hell out of me, lol, but I didn't want to NOT do it because my knowing her was based around a certain sport for which she was a manager. If I hadn't done it, I would have had to deal with the guys busting my chops. SO, I did it and liked it  (not much not to like) and then sort of had an even bigger crush on her , but she was a free spirit and wasn't looking for an SO. That kind of mixed me up. 
It was weird though, the fact that I had done 'it" seemed to make other girls want to do "it" with me. I wasn't a ROmeo prior to the first time, but it definitely seemed to up my charisma somehow. 
The girl went on to be a "Young Life" leader lol. I was always impressed with how successfully she was able to fool her mom and dad into thinking she was this paragon of virtue, and fool Young Life too. 
I am reasonably sure my 17 year old has NOT gone down that road, but I am not as sure about my 15 yo. I don't think it is a big deal if they are though, as long as they are being careful and smart. 
I think, even though teens have always been tempted sexually of course, the prolific nature and ease of acquiring porn accelerates the drives. [/quote]

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