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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Find a simple chapel that isn’t affiliated with the Catholic Church (or any church). It is unethical for your fiancé’s family to ask you to lie about being a Catholic. I wouldn’t even consider that as an option. [/quote] I don't think they are asking her to lie about being Catholic, as they know that is not required. PP is assuming that. However, OP does need to appreciate that this isn't just a wedding; it is a religious sacrament. One of the marriage vows OP will have to make to marry in the Catholic church is the vow before God, the Church and all present at the sacrament that she WILL raise the children Catholic. She should not lie about this. She does not want to make this vow, and so this is the most basic conversation she has to have with her fiance. Because it sounds like he wants to make this vow. [/quote]
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