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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The non-Catholic spouse lying about agreeing to raise your kids to be Catholic is grounds for an invalid marriage. If he marries outside of the church at your beautiful venue without a dispensation, that too would be an invalid marriage. Either way you do it, you guys will not be married in the eyes of the Catholic church. This might not mean anything to you right now, but it is a guarantee that there will be problems in the future. Especially as children start showing up.

You should really, really reconsider getting married to each other. You might think you are in love, but you are not a good fit at all.[/quote]

The non-Catholic party no longer needs to agree to raise the kids Catholic. The Catholic party has to agree to do their best and there ought to be a founded hope it will occur. [/quote]
Interesting, that must be a very recent change. Still, if OP’s fiancè lies about intending on raising his own kids Catholic (which OP seems to think he’s willing to do), then it’s still an invalid marriage.

I suspect the more likely outcome is that he *will* get the kids baptized, and this will cause more problems for OP who is really, really against this whole religion thing. And they’ll divorce, and he’ll get the annulment because the marriage was never there in the first place.

Better to end things here and now.
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