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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP -- he's gets a 50% say in what goes on in the house. An equal say. Equal to yours. You don't get more than 50%, for any issue, just because your way is more civilized.[/quote] Eh, this is only sort of true but you also have to pick your battles. My husband likes to lounge on the couch and in our bed with his street shoes on. I think it's a filthy habit and disgusting. I told him that it's a high priority for me to keep shoes off these surfaces - and I feel strongly about it. He... doesn't love me asking him to change how he prefers to sit/be. But he loves me and doesn't want me to be disgusted by the way he acts in our house. So he takes off his shoes before he lounges. OP, the best advice you got is to get the Fair Play cards and/or work through your household labor issues in counseling. You are deep in resentment, and that's a relationship killer.[/quote]
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