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[quote=Anonymous]OP--You're probably in your mid-30's, yes? Take a lesson I've learned: You only get one time in this rodeo. If you want something to happen, MAKE IT HAPPEN. I used to want my spouse to plan a spectacular birthday for me. It just wasn't happening. So I let it go and started planning my own. Guess what--it's a win-win for everyone. I never question my spouse's love for me and see the lack of "effort" as a measure of his love. It's just that planning these things isn't his wheelhouse. I'm turning 50 next week and have a fabulous trip planned to NYC for a few days. I was clear that I wanted spouse to take care of childcare arrangements and get train tickets. But everything else is planned by me because it's about what I want. He has stepped up on his end because he had clear tasks, and I'm really excited for this birthday trip. We're going to have lots of fun, crazy sex and time to ourselves. Again, it's a win-win for everyone. [/quote]
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