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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP- I used to feel so down and anxious when DS10's teachers contacted me. Even after years of it, it's still
tough. Here is what helps:

1. Try not not to compare your DS to other kids his age. It's easier said than done, but it's counterproductive.

2. Look at progress year by year, not in weeks or months. Honestly my kid struggles a lot ADHD +) but the social and emotional growth over the past few years is remarkable and hard to appreciate if I over focus on his current challenges.

3. In a school setting, I *always* listen with an open mind but I don't have to take every statement as gospel given what I know about my son, peer dynamics, the classroom management etc. I stay neutral until I have a complete picture so that I can effectively advocate for my child and/or collaborate with teachers. (advice for later).

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Thanks for this. Particularly #2 because that has been a challenge for me. Just as Im feeling so great about progress from last year to this year, I am told or reminded about a current challenge, so sometimes it makes me feel hopeless. Thanks again![/quote]

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