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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op: It wasn't so much that she left. It was the manner in which she left. She didn't try to see if I had things in order, or give me time to get situated. She was also ok with leaving while my children were at school without telling them bye. She has put him before me since I was in high school. To the point that I had to give up my bed and sleep on a couch because he and his mother needed a place to sleep. I thought a day or two notice would have been considerate. My husband has been begging for us to have Christmas at home to start our own traditions, but every year I go visit her so that she can have her whole family with her. I guess I should start putting my husband first too right? 
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Yes, you should be putting your husband and kids first. I love and respect my parents, but if my husband was "begging" me for something, I would listen and respect his wishes. You don't want to look back someday and have your partner and kids see you as the selfish one who put Grandma above them. [/quote]

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