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[quote=Anonymous]OP I am wife who was in a similar position as your wife. Things got much better for me when my kid went to daycare. If I had it to do over again I would have sent my kid to daycare earlier. My daughter was home with me the first 2 years and it's the hardest job ever. Plus I was super boring to others during that time because my conversations about "work" revolve around the kid. Maybe your wife can go back to work or volunteer part time, while your kid goes to daycare part-time. Does your wife have a hobby? She really needs time away from the kids to remember who she is other than "mommy". Make sure when she talks about the kids you are an active listener. Nod your head and have stuff to say in response. After that politely tell her you'd like to not talk about kids during date night, but are happy to hear about them other times. Also tell her you love her, know her job is hard, and you miss having sex with her. Do not tell her this when you are in the middle of trying to get sex.[/quote]
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