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[quote=Anonymous]Long story short, my DH sent a msg 18 months ago to his birth mother via FB (he has always known her name and she lives overseas in UK).
On Friday his half sister responded and said since the mom is not tech savvy, she had been cleaning out her inbox and found his message. So she also sent me a msg telling me who she was. After thinking about it over night, my DH responded and they have been sending messages back and forth.  She also introduced him to his other half sister and he has been chatting online.

BUT he has not messaged directly with his birth mom, the sisters say she is still in shock and worried about rejection (even tho my DH has said he bears no ill will towards being adopted).

This raised some red flags for me that he has not spoken/messaged directly with birth mom at all since Friday. Is this normal or have I seen too many crazy catfishing movies?

Obviously, this is a very emotional time and we had a bit of an argument last night. I told him to be careful, he doesn't really know what is going on. He said I was being paranoid.[/quote]

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