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[quote=Anonymous]What stands out to me from your OP is the amount of I and he. And not we. I suggest putting all income and outgoing together. However, I know of couples who keep it separate, and if it works best, sure, keep separate responsibilities and interests. But it's not working however you are doing it. For example, how was he solely responsible for a car fix, water heater, w&d, and the mortgage? (In what seemed like a month or two, or other short period of time). Also apparently, household expenses. If it was a problem, he probably should have come to you saying his cash flow was crazy... But the point is, you cannot solely blame him for not coming to you, for being late, etc. It's a problem with the two of you and how you've set this up. You need to forgive, and amicably go back to the drawing board. Potentially piling all finances together. [/quote]
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