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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been trying to buy an apartment as an investment. When I pulled a credit report, I found that I had been late on a mortgage payment on another property and that this was really my DH's fault. His explanation was since I don't contribute a cent towards household expenses and he had to pay to repair the car I wrecked as well as the new water heater and new washer dryer a few months back all at the same time, there was not enough money from his paycheck to cover it all. So, he paid the mortgage late. Now I am pissed. His response was I could finally get it together and contribute to the household expenses. Further, he said that since I did not ask him about the new apartment, that my problem is not his "circus and not his monkeys" and that I just have to deal with it. How do you even respond to that? I thought it very rude. And now he uses this phrase all the time when he feels I am in a pickle of my own making, not understanding that my pickles are because of his making. Bastard! [/quote] Do you work / earn money / have a paycheck? If so why dont you contribute to household expenses? Thats the question you should be askjng yourself. [/quote]
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