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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have a baby on the way and this is the dynamic???

Get into couples therapy NOW. I'm not joking. This board is littered with wives who do everything and then complain about their husbands who just sit there waiting to be told what to do. I think there's a thread now ("Tired of being the grown-up" or something like that) where it's clear that the wife/mother of a 3 yr old is done and considering divorce.

This will not go away because you made some "tweak" you read about on a forum. This will take a significant effort on BOTH your parts. Like everything else in your marriage, it can't be directed by you. That's why you need a professional to assist with this change. [/quote]

Op here - I agree this is dramatic.  Most of my friends are also in this situation with kids and while it's eye rolling and annoying, it's not marriage ending (in their and my cases).  I'm sure I contribute to it too - so what I'm asking is how people break this dynamic that is so common.  What can I do differently that forces him to start thinking about this things and not just show up.[/quote]

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