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[quote=Anonymous]I bet if he had to parent alone 50% of the time he'd magically find ways to manage. If I were you I'd stop intervening and picking up after him. I know it's very hard, but you may be surprised. For instance if he fails to get groceries, no dinner, just feed the child. If you expect guests and he doesn't clean up or get things, don't scramble, just let the chips fall and explain "Larlo forgot to get the grocery and wine while I was at work... Do you mind if we order pizza"' similarly don't collect or do his laundry. Let him feed his child what and when he wants and deal with the fallout. Remember the child will soon be old enough to wash and feed herself. There won't be any lasting harm. Many times men don't see the countless tasks it takes to run a household until they have to do them. ADHD or no, he's a selfish ass.[/quote]
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