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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's just saying "I got this", even though the therapist and coach were adamant about lists and schedules and stuff. He thinks he can wing it and/or has been procrastinating implementing the therapists advice. I actually made him stop coaching for a month this fall because he wasn't following through on his coaching and was wasting our time and money. [/quote]

Well, then you have to decide how much you can take of this. If it were me, I'd be at the end of my rope and having a serious sit-down. "When you choose not to use the tools and resources you've been given, then this family is a mess. I feel like crap and disrespected. Resentment is poisoning this relationship. For the first time I'm wondering if I can continue with you in this relationship. What is getting in the way of you using the lists and schedules?" [/quote]

Consider having this conversation with him in couples counseling.[/quote]

Ashamed to say that it did, and all that came out of it was him saying he wanted to change but nothing happening.[/quote]

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