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[quote=Anonymous]This is a tough one because it requires you to say no when your parents invite themselves on the trip.

For next time, I suggest you figure out your message ahead of time and stick with it. Focus on what in it for them. For example:

"This year, DH and the kids and I are going for a rustic, outdoorsy Christmas break. We are planning on a lot of hiking and boating, and teaching the kids to snorkel.

We'll miss you but we don't want you to miss your traditional Christmas because we know how much you love it! We will figure out a time to come visit you soon after the holidays."

If they try to invite themselves: "Mom, I think you'd be miserable on this trip! It won't have any of the traditional trappings. We'll see you sometime early in the year."

If she keeps pushing, continue with variations of no, it won't work for you. The key is to keep on message.

If she asks questions, like "Why can;t we come?" answer with a question" "Mom, why would you want to come on a rustic vacation that involves camping, hiking and sleeping on the beach?"; etc.[/quote]

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