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[quote=Anonymous][quote]PP--your address so OP can the drug dealing guests to stay at your house. Problem solved.[/quote]

You're probably someone who monitors the registered sex offenders database for sex offenders in her neighborhood.  Or, is someone shocked (SHOCKED!) when you learned someone with whom you are acquainted discloses a drug/alcohol problem.  You are oblivious that we are surrounded at all times by people who have hidden their negative behaviors and think you can isolate your family from them.  What an epic fail.

OP says her SIL raised these kids which makes them more like her children than grandchildren.  Thus, they're OP's nieces and nephews.  Had OP stated that they have a history of coming to family events incapacitated, using drugs in her home, offensive or combative, I'd be very supportive of her efforts to ban them from her home.  I'd support her if her SIL has related experiences of them stealing to support a drug habit.  But, again, that's not what she posted.  What indication is there that these 'kids' will behave outside the boundaries of what's acceptable?

The gun issue is just ridiculous.  We don't own guns and I'm solidly in support of research to reduce firearm incidents.  But, gun ownership doesn't make someone a threat.  If OP doesn't want guns in her house, she's entitled to issue that edict.  But to ban someone from the house because she suspects them of being drug dealers and because they own guns is ridiculous.  Is she really expecting a rival drug dealer to ambush her house while her niece/nephew are in there?  DCUM posters don't typically live in those kinds of neighborhoods.[/quote]

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