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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So tired of this stuff.  Should I do anything here, or just learn and move on?

I dated a guy for two years.  He always said that he wanted to marry me.  We never fought.  We had a great time together - always!   Really just ideal.

So one day he started acting differently.  Just less into me.  Within two weeks he broke with me.  It was hard, but I accepted it.  He gave some lame excuse (a non-reason, really).

So I just found out that he had been cheating on me for 1/4 (at least) of our relationship and is now LIVING with this woman.  Three weeks ago he was talking about our future.

I know I should just realize that I dodged a bullet (cheater) and move on.  But I feel so stupid and played.  I really want to text him and tell him that I know what a cheater he is.

Should I let this go?  Some sort of crazy revenge?  I am just so sad over it and I want to feel better.  Any advice for me?  Thank you.[/quote]

I'm sorry, OP.   I know that hurts really bad.  Take comfort in the fact you weren't the skeevy nasty liar.   He's gross and will stay that way, most likely.

Can you look back and see any signs?   That's the only thing I'd do.   Check my "picker."    There may be NOTHING wrong with yours and this guy is just a weird flake.   But I found that "I" picked less-than-ideal partners for a long time.

Otherwise, just try to focus on you.   Good exercise, good food, good friends, good enrichment.   Make some new rituals without him.   It will hurt for awhile, but then you'll pull out of it and be ready to meet someone who truly deserves you.  [/quote]

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