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[quote=Anonymous]For weeks, I have been talking to DH about our Thanksgiving plans, his work schedule, etc. his parents are divorced and his mom lives in MA with her mom, brother, nephew, friends. MIL went on a big trip with her friends the majority of November. BIL lives in NYC. DH saw him 2 weeks ago and no mention of Thanksgiving.

After basically ignoring me about Thanksgiving, our very close friends are visiting us this coming weekend through Thanksgiving. My other good local friend graciously invited us over for Thanksgiving dinner and we accepted. My parents and brother are planning on coming over on Friday to celebrate over the weekend. They live out of state and my brother just started a new job and has to work Friday.

DH just asks if his family can come Thanksgiving. We already talked about his family coming for Christmas. I blew up at him because I have been asking for weeks and we finalize our plans and he just changes it. His mom just came back from travel and wants to see her grandchildren. BIL has an on off girl. I am assuming things didn't work out with her for Thanksgiving plans. I think BIL should just go home to Boston and our plans should stay the same.

Do I have the right to be upset?
Would you just have ILs come and cancel on our friends?[/quote]

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