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Reply to "Pity party: not invited to holiday party"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Check in with them and ask if you can come, say you were really looking forward to it. If they tell you they don't want you there, that's when you throw a pity party and go out.[/quote] Oh my. No. That inappropriately puts them on the spot. I tend to cull guest lists when people haven't reciprocated as well. And reciprocating could be as easy as suggesting meeting at a park some Saturday morning (totally free). I just get tired of takers who won't plan or do anything but are first to RSVP to others' activities. I really don't think it's money, I think it's laziness or possibly insecurity about getting rejected. But you know what? Everyone feels a least a tinge of worry about that and we push forward.[/quote]
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