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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So I am divorced and doing the online dating thing.  I am quickly learning that it's important to meet because that's the main way to determine chemistry. I've met lots of great guys and I always want to give them more chances to see if the chemistry thing comes later.  Last weekend, I went on a date and within an hour,  we were kissing.  The chemistry was palpable.  Has this happened to anyone else?  Should I not give those other men another chance because this is how it's supposed to be?
Please don't mock.  I was married 20+yrs and I am genuinely curious.[/quote]

As a guy who has been on and off online dating for years (divorced for 8 years) my observations:

- New dates with explosive chemistry at first normally doesn't last.  Intense at first, fizzle later. [b]100% true[/b]
- Divorce Women in their 40's / 50's coming off a divorce are so much more uninhabited sexually. [b]1,000,000% true[/b]
- Finding the "chemistry" is what we all seek, yet the baggage of life (kids, work, responsibility) always drains a relationship. [b]depends, if you're both in the same place, want the same things, the chemistry can, and does, help prevent that 'drain'[/b]
- If the chemistry is amazing and you are still dating him for months - wait to introduce him to your kids until you know its real. [b]yes, totally agree[/b]
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+1 to the above.  I was a divorced dad and used online dating (OKC and Match) for a couple of years before I met my wife (who was also a divorced mom)[/quote]

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