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[quote=Anonymous]I don't want to stress you out but give some thought to who should do a reading.

I went with a relative to plan the funeral for her dad.

There were 2 readings and someone with whom the deceased had a falling out assumed they'd be reading.  Nope.

Choose close family members, friends, people who go to church often (so they can pronounce the words).

For songs, a few that come up often are:
Eagle's Wings
Ave Maria
Amazing Grace 
Water is Wide

Also Eye of the Sparrow (traditionally African American)

You Are Mine
Hear I Am Lord
You Are Near

You should bring some envelopes with $20 in  them.  (Like 6 or 8) and don't seal them.
Ask the secretary or the usher "is there anyone we'd want to show gratitude to for their service who is not covered by the church's fee" or somethng like that. They may say, "there will be 2 altar servers". These are kids and the volunteer. No need to get them a $50 gift. Just a small thank you, like a $20. An organist had to practice the music and take some time, so I'd offer them more (if it isn't covered).

I have played music at funerals/weddings for $150. However, the church may have a different situation.

Sometimes a church makes a program. I don't love this practice.  You might want to ask about it and if so, select a photo.

I am sorry you are dealing with this. I don't know your loved one, but they are on my prayer list.

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