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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your friend wants a fucking expensive - $10,000 honeymoon when the man has already said he wiped out his savings? What does she want him to do - charge it?

On top of having a baby which is one of the most expense things they can do.

Explain to her kindly that courthouse weddings and simple vacations a few states over are a thing.

Also your question doesn't make sense - they want to get married. They plan on marrying soon. There's nothing wrong with having a baby at 39, though there's no reason not to just sign the legal marriage documents while the kid is in utero.[/quote]

The guy has not mentioned marriage, just a baby. He seems like a really good family guy and I think he would marry her if she were pregnant. They have been together for less than a year and he was burned by first marriage so I under his hesitation.

My DH was supposedly madly in love with me and it still took him 2.5 years to propose to me. Then 1.5 years until our actual wedding. My friend doesn't have 2-3 years since she is pushing 40.

We have 3 kids but I have many friends who have struggled with infertility. I hear about IUI and IVF ALL the time amongst my mid-late 30's friends.[/quote]

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