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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Cheating victim here. IMO, you can't really get back what you lost.  Like you, my attraction to DH was based in large part on a perception I had about him that was completely untrue.  It's like waking up and finding yourself married to a stranger.

I think the only choice is spend time really getting to know the person he IS or is trying to become. Can you love that person?

Also, you have to put much more focus into building your own life.  The only person you really know and can trust is you.  Love and do for yourself more than anyone else.  In the end, you're the only one you can rely on. [/quote]

Excellent advice and I agree with every word. You know the phrase "you can't un-ring the bell", well, you'll never be able to completely put this out of your mind. I honestly can't say how I'd deal with this situation, but I have a feeling that I would never be able to truly overcome the poison it put into my relationship and eventually I'd have to leave. [/quote]

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