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[quote=Anonymous] It is REALLY good that you see this at work before you get married. Either accept this and maybe attempt a work-around of off-limits days twice a week, when he cannot make plans with others (which sounds like a recipe for resentment on both sides), or let him go. Letting him know this is your dealbreaker may (maaaay) open his eyes. He'll either change his ways or decide you aren't for him. I loved that XH always stopped to help a stranger and seemed to take a sincere interest in others. That is until I became invisible to him whenever anyone else was in the room. It was maddening and bewildering ("Hello! I'm standing right here!!), and profoundly hurtful. The narcissistic thrill of others was more rewarding than being attentive to his pregnant wife. Hence, XH. This is who he is. You're tired of fighting, tired of explaining how corrosive this dynamic is to the relationship. You've gotta start looking to the future. It very well may not include him. [/quote]
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