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[quote=Anonymous]Guy here. My wife and I for the first 15 of our 20 yr marriage had similar issues. I like to go out, hang with friends, etc. and my wife likes to stay home and be with our nuclear family. We fought constantly about this and she felt like she was a lower priority. Over the last five years things have change and we have compromised. I go out less and she goes out with me more. A big part of this is that our kids are older and more independent. I love her companionship and I am now able to see that she needed to feel that she mattered to me. Obviously I am slow and I should have figured this out a long time. I do not think you are needy. I think you are mis-matched with your fiancé. I suggest you re-think whether you want to fight these battles for the rest of your life. It will only get worse, especially when you have kids. I think are wise to recognize your strong differences before you get married. [/quote]
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