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[quote=Anonymous]"Cold feet" in the sense of "oh my gosh what am I doing am I meant to get married? what if he's not the right one? Aaaaah!" were normal for me, my friends, and my happily married mother and MIL. Having a ball of emotions before the biggest decision of your life is not unusual or indicative of anything deeply wrong. But you don't sound like you have cold feet, you sound like you have very serious and legitimate reservations about his ability and/or willingness to be a good partner. That means PAUSE on all wedding planning while you look into premarital counseling or while you determine if you are, in fact, the #1 person in his life or if you will always be overlooked (as in the gift buying). My gut from your post is that he is not a good candidate for marriage for you, but your relationship is bigger than your OP.[/quote]
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