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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH has been having an affair with the same woman for eight years. I have caught them twice before: once when it first started, and we went to counseling, and I told his family and friends and monitored his email and his outings, and then once about four years ago, when I confronted her, but he denied there being anything between them and told me to stop harassing her. Then I caught them again last week (I found his secret email account).

He told her she is the love of his life, which someone on another thread said sounds like the affair fog, and that the marriage could be salvageable with counseling. [b]Could this be the case even after eight years? [/b]Should we go back to counseling to break him out of the fog or just throw in the towel now because he is actually in love with someone else?

I am furious, heartbroken, and hurt. We have one child, who is in middle school. I work PT, and could step up to FT, but we would feel it financially.

From what I can tell, the OW is divorced with a kid. She was single when they met, got married, but she is back to using her maiden name on her company's online directory.[/quote]

Uh. No. [/quote]

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