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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, there's nothing wrong with a boy crying, and you shouldn't assume others will think there is.
 
  Don't let your son think there's something wrong with him crying in front of people. You need to give the other kids a chance to show themselves as decent human beings. He's not "making himself a target." There was nothing wrong with his behavior. If someone begins to bully him, THAT is the behavior that needs to be addressed. But there may not be any of that. So don't worry ahead of time.

Just do what you can to see that your boy feels comfortable confiding in you. But otherwise, celebrate the sensitive soul he has. There is a lot in our world to bring tears to our eyes. Nothing wrong with being sensitive.[/quote]

Crying is a sign of weakness, especially in middle school. OP is right to be alarmed.[/quote]

Yeah, crying in public rarely ends well. Showing emotions so openly will likely lead to some social problems because kids pick on each other and this is something that can be exploited. [b]Work with him on better strategies to manage his emotions and keep himself cool and composed.[/b] [/quote]

do you have any specific suggestions?[/quote]

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