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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So first off you need to put your foot down about the phone.  No comments and then it later comes back out.  I would raise hell and not let that happen.

Second you need to make your own life more interesting.  Find ways to engage her in conversation.  Change the tv show you watch.  Cook a new dinner together.  It seems like your attitude is that she should make life interesting for you but it should go both ways.

Also not sure what your bonus has to do with things.  [/quote]

It's a big deal as it was for all the hard work for a massively successful project despite setbacks.  I was a huge effort I led.  See thing is, when you do stuff like that you tell your spouse.  I'd be more than happy to hear news like that from her.

I don't like TV particularly as it's a waste of time, I instead get involved in productive things.  I watched it because she like somemshows and I like to spend time with her.  I don't cook anymore.  I used to a lot and everyone enjoyed it.  I mean I do but bring the extras in for friends and coworkers as they like it.  I don't make things for her anymore.  To be honest I like making food and as I have a pretty strict diet I maintain for health and appearance, it's healthy too.[/quote

So sound boring, which is probably your wife is on her phone so much.

Still don't understand about the bonus.  You want your wife to talk about it more?[/quote]

Or take some interest in my work?  Perhaps a little.  I would for her.

I guess you're one of those people who don't care about what their spouse does.  She tells me about a big account I'm proud of her and want to hear about it.[/quote]

My husband and I both have successful careers.  I'm interested in his job up to a point.  But if it was all he had to talk about I would lose interest.  I can talk about work with my coworkers.  If all you're bringing to the table is money/your job then you're boring her.  [/quote]

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