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[quote=Anonymous]Married for 10 years. I was never enamored but we were best friends. We went through hard times, had kids and have hit our late 30s. The issue is that I love him but not romantically anymore. He's painful to be around. He used to be very laid back, fun and loving. Now It's his way or no way. He criticizes everything about me, everything I do...down to watching tv - I apparently "watch tv wrong", he has to redo everything I do (he literally rewashes the dishes), my ideas are dumb. He treats me like I don't have a full time job too (we make the same amount). I do most of the childcare as well. I tell him he needs to stop criticizing me - he says I don't listen to him. In all fairness, I tune him out because I can only stand so much nit picking.

I'm going to therapy because it's the one place where I can admit I am miserable. He won't go to marriage counseling.

If you were in the same boat, what did you do?  I'm petrified of starting over and dealing with lawyers and custody battles.. but I can't live like this for the next 50 years..[/quote]

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