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[quote=Anonymous]We have done the same thing for the past seven years. Sounds like a simliar situation, my mom was divorced, retired, and lived in a snowy area alone. She helped considerably when I first returned to work after DH was born. She is older now and stays with him an hour after school a few days a week until I can get home. Just a few things to note:

1. Look into the health care implications of moving. If your MIL has Medicare with a supplement plan she should just be able to transfer this over to the new state. Consider whether you will pay for this. For my mother is costs us about $250 a month plus we pay her prescription copays. Also, look into her medical needs and think about where she can be seen.

2. Finances. My mom is down to just her social security now so my DH and I contribute significantly. Also, my sister contributes as well. Both you and your DH need to be on the same page about this.

3. Emotions/Conflict-If at all possible give your MIL a large enough space including a bathroom and small kitchen. Being in a small house, together, especially during the cold months can be challenging. My mother has her own small apartment in our house and if I could give her more space I would.

I will tell you it is not always ideal, and there are days I wish I had not done this. On the other hand she provided exceptional care for my DS when he was little and we can now help her with her care.

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