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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This move sounds like it has absolutely zero benefits for you, OP. I wouldn't want to move close to boundary-free in-laws and lose my good job, if I were you.[/quote] I disagree, completely. OP's been struggling to carry the family for two years, during the time that every parent knows is the most challenging. She knows they need two salaries to survive and her husband's wellbeing as a contributor is essential. Every marriage has setbacks and places on the path where one spouse has to take the leadership position. Believe it or not, this is OP's. Her husband is the one who needs the most support right now. I don't think there's anything wrong with a contingency to make the move temporary, but there isn't enough information to decide at this point whether or not there's benefit to it. [/quote]
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