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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Actually, I think encouraging women to use sex as some sort of carrot is just as sexist and misogynist as telling women to put up and shut up.

My view is this:  Sex is a part of marriage.  If you are upset with your spouse and don't want to have sex, then you need to figure out how to resolve that.  If it can't be resolved and if you don't foresee ever wanting to have sex with your spouse, then you should divorce or agree to an open marriage.  This goes for men and women.

It's manipulative to use sex as some sort of punishment or reward.

No, no one should feel forced to have sex.  But if you don't want to have sex with your spouse, you shouldn't be married to him/her.  If you are staying married for the kids or for some economic reason, then you should at the least allow for an open marriage.  [/quote]

No one is saying anyone should use sex as a carrot.  What they are saying is that women should be able to listen to THEIR OWN SEXUAL DESIRES including the desire not to have sex.  That that urge is totally valid, and totally important.  Particularly in situations where someone has hurt the woman- of course she's not going to want to sleep with them.

God.  Just once I would love that when people talk about sex it was not centered around the male perspective [/quote]

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