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[quote=Anonymous]No, you don't ever have to have sex if you don't want to. Period. However, most people marry with the expectation of regular sexual contact. You were a virgin when you married, and you had no way to know how you would feel about sex, or what your sex drive would be like, so he can't claim that it was a "bait-and-switch" or anything, but what he is saying, in a terrible, rapey way, is that he wants a more active sex life. A couple with a mismatch in such a central part of a marriage would do well to seek counseling, together and separately. Maybe you will discover that you just aren't interested in sex WITH HIM, and maybe there's a reason for it. Some reasons are fixable (technique, timing, how he approaches you) and some are not (you're actually not attracted to men). Unless you explore this issue, you'll never know.[/quote]
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