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[quote=Anonymous]I think you are overreacting. Some of us guys still open office doors for women, allow them to enter an elevator first, offer them a hand when they are trying to get out of some monstrous SUV holding a briefcase and there is snow on the ground. Frankly, I do that for men too! We don't do it with any flourish or chauvinist intent it is simply manners taught by our mothers. I don't pull out a female colleagues chair at dinner or open her car door because that is almost date like. I may say "do you need a hand" when she is putting on a heavy winter coat. He may not even know he was lightly touching your back, he was simply indicating for you to go first. I've had guys do that to me and I'm quite sure they weren't trying to get intimate! The issue of sexual harassment is real, but hopefully the backlash to it won't be so extreme that good manners are no longer allowed. [/quote]
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