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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I dunno about "selfish" but how about just plain "bad in bed"?  I have been a horndog most of my life, and lately I'm about to go out of my head fantasizing about random women I meet.  DW, however, is pretty much too intimidated/insecure to do much of anything...she's even self-conscious about receiving oral.  My drive at home is approaching zero, and not, it's not ED or low T.  I would try to talk to her about it, but pretty much bringing it up triggers massive feelings of inadequacy which just compounds the original problem.  I think I should probably up my game and just initiate and bring the passion and she may respond (she does 50% of the time) but honestly, I'm bringing all of it...if I drop the rope (and don't initiate) NOTHING happens.  I tried this..we went 3 months.  I'm just not all that excited about it...I have to make myself initiate, and getting excited requires a heavy dose of fantasizing about other women.  I really want a sex life with my wife, not other women I fantasize about.  [/quote]

Well dude you are the man. Take charge of the situation. [b]Tell her exactly what to do from "get naked" all the way through to the "now go make me a sammich" part[/b].[/quote]

That's just an unnecessarily complicated form of masturbation. 
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Ha! And you wonder why you're not getting laid.  Hilarious.  Sucks to be you. [/quote]

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