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[quote=Anonymous]My MIL is similar and she gets hurt feelings if not needed. If your mom is task oriented and her identity is tied to being a "mom" to you even as an adult then choose what you will tell her. Many times we have told MIL after the fact such as when my daughter was in a non-injury car accident. You need to save your energy. Great that you have your fiancee to support you. You could have a conversation or write a letter if you think it would help. Let her know the effect it is having on your relationship and things need to change if she wants you to include her in your life. Making boundaries is not easy, but necessary.[/quote]
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