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[quote=Anonymous]I have a similar mom. Not the illness you have (sorry to hear OP) but other life stresses. I tell her things only as absolutely needed. Even then I only tell my dad and he tells her.

It sucks having to be the mother to your mom especially when you really could use a healthy mom yourself.

I tried the heart to heart. I felt a bit better because at least now I know I tried.  Nothing really changed, but she did stop calling as frequently and crying on the phone to me about whatever is going on.

I let every one of her calls go to voicemail and only call back when ready.

She's good physically.. will support and help with kids and give her time but the emotional drain and strain is too much.

It's crappy but sometimes saying I'm fine or I'm doing okay even when you're not is the best option. I have other support - therapy, housecleaning,  friends, babysitter etc. and generally find leaving her out works best.

Sorry OP. It's so hard facing not having what you need or want. Mine is very anxious too and most days it's just too much to deal with.[/quote]

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