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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please confirm this is the right thing to do. I am married and have become attracted to a colleague over time and am sorry to say I'm not as friendly with him as i would be if he weren't attractive. I think he would like to be friends but I never give out personal information unless directly asked. And I don't ask as much about his personal life as I otherwise would. It is sad because I could use more friends in the office but better safe than sorry? I know the answer but would appreciate hearing others' experiences. [/quote] I think you're showing more restraint than I've witnessed on this site before. yes, I think what you're doing is fine. I have had to do the same - basically freeze someone out a little who I know I'd end up horribly attracted to if I were allowed to get to know them better (or maybe that's the answer - get to know them and find out you DON'T like them). anyway, what you're doing is fine. Just don't be rude.[/quote]
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