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[quote=Anonymous]First, I love my sister. I feel she's generally well intentioned. My sister lacks boundaries. When I say lacks boundaries, I truly believe she's never been taught about boundaries. It's not something ever taught to us by our parents and they were poor examples of boundaries. With all of that said, my sister is causing friction in my marriage. She will get mad and go as far as asking me to divorce my wife. Even when my wife's in ear shot. My sister always expects me firmly on her side, she's generally the one in the wrong. I don't have rose colored lenses with my wife, I promise. I was discussing getting a vasectomy with my dad(the hospital I go to is Catholic and doesn't do them). My sister went off saying how my wife should be the one getting sterilized. She said "what if you divorce her, thats so stupid". If my wife gets pregnant, it could literally kill her. I almost lost her after she had our daughter. My sister knows this. Her inserting herself in my marriage is causing major friction. My mother is very sensitive. All my wife has to do is gently correct her and she will cry. Then my sister will text me flipping out about my wife. When I say gently correct I mean Ex: Kathy, thank you so much for helping with Ella. Remember, we don't use baby powder." I don't know what to do with my sister. I've told her to quit and she says she defends her family and I need to learn to start. Advice?[/quote]
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