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[quote=Anonymous]Did your DD want you to be her coach? If she didn't, I'd apologize, and promise not to be her coach again, and tell her you guys just have to make it through this season. Then continue being as supportive as you can be with her while still coaching the team. Lesson learned.

If she wanted you to be her coach, remind her of that, and remind her you don't have to do it again, but that she has to pull herself together and make this work. You can be a little harder on her if she was involved in setting this situation up.

In scouts, you can get fun patches for kids when they've suffered through being a leaders kid. My children liked getting those. It didn't always make up for the times I asked them to be especially nice to the kid who was having a hard time, or otherwise depended on them in ways I wouldn't have done to another kid, but it was recognition. Maybe you and your daughter could go pick out a special soccer ball, or get matching jerseys, or something, so she can have that special connection with you even when you're sharing time with other kids?

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