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[quote=Anonymous]I do work part time.
In laws are icky because brother in law is a selfish jerk who makes a lot of money and sits on the couch.
He yelled at me previously while I was pregnant and he had eaten my food.  I asked him where my food was, and he yelled at me that he had eaten it, grow up, get a life, etc.
I realize this was a year ago...I am having a very difficult time "getting over it".  Mostly because my husband says "that's how he is, he won't apologize, he won't ever change".
And that is okay??
Sister in law (his wife) is like a mute person.  Aloof and doesn't communicate with anyone.  She just dumps her kids at mother in law's house when she needs help.  I know, not my direct problem.  
We were invited to these inlaw's house for dinner a couple of weeks ago to "say hi" to sister in law's parents.  I asked for a time limit for the gathering.  Husband had a very very very difficult time holding up his end of the bargain.  It was the time we had agreed on and he kept saying "not yet"...  And then when he finally said we needed to leave, it was a million apologies.  Why do we need apologies?  It's like making me sound like I am ridiculous for needing to leave.  And it seems weird for me to leave with the kids and leave him there.  I don't want to leave by myself.  I want to leave with MY FAMILY.
By the way, for that dinner, mother in law cooked a big dinner and brought it over.  She said her neck hurt from cooking. And sister in law served CARROTS to go along with it.  Yes, CARROTS and that's it.  I feel that is very passive aggressive----because she is someone who likes to cook. Last time we went there a couple of months ago she served frozen pizza.[/quote]

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