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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you're using this affair to escape your life and all the stress.  The thing is, you'll run away, and then you'll be trading one set of problems for another set.  Part-time custody of your kids, part-time custody with his kids. The logistics of it all, and the new routine of having to do pick ups and drop offs and weekends on and off. The kids may act out in hateful ways.  Then there will still bills to pay, things to fix around that house and all kinds of other things...just like you have now.  What will you do then when life gets dull again?  Run off with yet another man? You need better coping skills, not a new partner.  Your kids are paying the price.

Love is not just a verb, but an action.  I don't think it's true you never loved your husband, or that you can't find the love with him again.  But if you want to do that, you have to completely give up this affair. Get a new job.  It'll take time to get over him, until the brain chemicals adjust.

[b]You need a better therapist, too.[/b]

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