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[quote=Anonymous]I will add  that the kids need to be careful about the clothes they wear. Sometimes the party is after the ceremony and the kids come to the service in what looks like cocktail attire- I know they are 12 and 13, but that's what we are seeing now.  High heels, revealing and short  dresses.  It can be sleeveless, but maybe include  a sweater of some sort, not too short hemlines either. Boys should wear a suit, or a sport coat if a suit can't happen, and if that can't happen, some khakis and a nice button down shirt.  Shoes, no sneakers. They will be expected to wear yarmulkes in the service- most places. If the party is at night, and the service is in the am, they need to dress respectfully ,a nice  skirt or dress, I really haven't seen pants for girls, but that doesn't mean they can't, but no leggings, jeans, etc. Boys- see above. They are likely to be a little bored. Of course, but remind them about behavior. Absolutely no cellphones. Adults have to be reminded about that, too. Yes, unfortunately.  Most shuls are prepared for guests and they help remind  young guests, but sometimes kids are asked to leave if there is a problem. It's rare- most kids get it, not all, however.

The evening affairs can be very very fancy and very involved with food, bands, DJs, entertainment. If your kid is on this circuit this  year, he/she may go to more than 20- I went to more than that when I was 13.  Yeah, it sometimes  waaay over the top, but the kids will have a year of super fun parties they won't see again until they all get married. Lately, some families are opting for lower key events- maybe just a luncheon, and really, I hope that trend continues. Sometimes there is all three- the service, a luncheon, and the big party later on.  Have fun!

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