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[quote=Anonymous]Hey, I posted this about a week ago and I came today to see the replies but I can't seem to find my post. This site gets so many new posts it's hard to find your own haha.

So here it is again (sorry if you've seen this before)

I'm a fairly young guy (23) and I know this site has great mature advice that I'm looking for. Thanks.

So the girl I was seeing kind of sort of ended things with me a few weeks ago (more of her getting upset over something silly than anything). She apologized a week later for overreacting. I responded back letting her know that everything was fine but then she didn't even acknowledge my response and she went 4 days without saying anything. After 4 days she asked to see me but I just was still pissed about the whole thing to be honest so I wasn't receptive. I didn't ignore her but I was just kind of cold. After that attempt she didn't say anything else.

Anyways she and I haven't talked in weeks. Based on her snaps (Snapchat/social media)she seems just fine. On Tuesday I get text from her saying hey headed home (she lives a few hours away) I left some stuff for you by the front door. I told my roommate to go outside and check and to bring it in. I replied back ok thanks. A few minutes later I sent her another text saying that my roommate just told me and that I was in Dover (her city). All she said back was "no problem... okay cool" I get back to my town today and in the bag she has a note that says," Hope all is well. It's been a while. Ran into your roommate this weekend and heard that you're moving soon. I was just concerned so I got you a few pick me ups. Could be wrong and if I am just take it as a housewarming and pay it forward :)" The bag had a few of some small inside jokes kind of gifts. Nothing flashy.

1. Is she just being friendly? 
2. Also, is it weird that I still look at her snaps fairly regularly (every few days)? For those who aren't familiar with Snapchat if you post something it shows you who has looked at it. She doesn't look at mine though... "

My friend told me that it didn't seem like she was interested, she's just trying to be a friend.  Guys of DCUM if you think a girl just wants to be friends in this situation would you even bother saying anything more than thanks?
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